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WebSockets

The Real-Time Web Explained

A practical guide to WebSockets - what they are, when to use them, and when to absolutely avoid them. With real performance numbers and actual code.

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The Thing About WebSockets Nobody Tells You

So here’s the thing: I avoided WebSockets for years. Like, actively avoided them. I’d see “real-time chat” in a spec and immediately think “polling with setTimeout, got it.” And you know what? That worked fine for way longer than it should have.

Then one day I’m looking at our AWS bill - $847/month just for a simple notification system - and I’m thinking “this is fucking ridiculous.” We were polling an endpoint every 2 seconds for 5,000 users. That’s 2.5 million HTTP requests per hour. The math was not mathing.

Switched to WebSockets. Bill dropped to $124/month. Same functionality. Same user experience. I felt like an idiot for waiting so long.

So let me walk you and I through this whole WebSocket thing. I’m assuming you know what HTTP is and maybe you’ve heard the term “real-time” thrown around in meetings. But the actual mechanics? That’s probably fuzzy. It was for me too.

Why WebSockets Even Exist

Traditional HTTP works like this:

Client: "Hey server, got any new messages?"
Server: "Nope."

[2 seconds pass]

Client: "Hey server, got any new messages?"
Server: "Nope."

[2 seconds pass]

Client: "Hey server, got any new messages?"
Server: "Actually yes, here's one."

This is called polling and it’s wildly inefficient. You’re basically knocking on a door every few seconds asking if there’s mail, when the mail carrier could just… ring the doorbell when they arrive.

Here’s what that looks like with actual numbers from my experience:

HTTP POLLING OVERHEAD (5,000 concurrent users, 2s interval):

Requests per hour:     2,500,000
Average request size:  ~1.2KB (headers + empty response)
Bandwidth used:        ~3,000 GB/month
Server CPU time:       ~847 hours/month (processing empty requests)
AWS bill:              $847/month

WEBSOCKET EQUIVALENT:

Initial connections:   5,000
Messages sent:         Only when there's actual data
Bandwidth used:        ~180 GB/month
Server CPU time:       ~52 hours/month
AWS bill:              $124/month

The difference is absurd. And that’s for a relatively small user base.

What WebSockets Actually Are

Think of WebSockets like this: Instead of you calling a restaurant every 5 minutes to ask if your takeout is ready, you give them your phone number and they call you when it’s done. One connection, open both ways, messages flow when needed.

The technical term for this is “full-duplex communication over a single TCP connection” but honestly that jargon is totally unnecessary for understanding what’s happening. It’s a persistent connection where both sides can send messages whenever they want.

Here’s the simplified flow:

CLIENT → SERVER:  "Hey, can we upgrade this HTTP connection to WebSocket?"
SERVER → CLIENT:  "Yeah sure, here's the upgrade handshake"
[Connection stays open]
SERVER → CLIENT:  "New message arrived"
CLIENT → SERVER:  "Message received, thanks"
SERVER → CLIENT:  "Another update"
CLIENT → SERVER:  "Got it"
[Connection stays open until explicitly closed]

Compare that to HTTP where every single exchange requires:

  1. TCP handshake (3-way)
  2. TLS handshake (if HTTPS)
  3. HTTP request with full headers
  4. HTTP response with full headers
  5. Connection close (usually)

And you do ALL of that every 2 seconds with polling. It’s insanity when you actually write it out.

The Actual Implementation

The code is honestly simpler than you’d think. Here’s a complete client-side example:

// Client-side (browser)
const ws = new WebSocket('wss://api.example.com/live');

ws.onopen = () => {
  console.log('Connected to server');
  ws.send(JSON.stringify({ type: 'subscribe', channel: 'notifications' }));
};

ws.onmessage = (event) => {
  const data = JSON.parse(event.data);
  console.log('Received:', data);

  // Update UI with new notification
  updateNotificationBadge(data.count);
};

ws.onerror = (error) => {
  console.error('WebSocket error:', error);
  // Fall back to polling if WebSocket fails
  startPolling();
};

ws.onclose = () => {
  console.log('Connection closed, attempting reconnect...');
  setTimeout(() => connectWebSocket(), 3000);
};

Server-side (Node.js with ws library):

import { WebSocketServer } from 'ws';

const wss = new WebSocketServer({ port: 8080 });

// Store active connections
const clients = new Set();

wss.on('connection', (ws, req) => {
  clients.add(ws);
  console.log(`Client connected. Total: ${clients.size}`);

  ws.on('message', (data) => {
    const message = JSON.parse(data);

    if (message.type === 'subscribe') {
      // Subscribe this client to notifications
      subscribeToChannel(ws, message.channel);
    }
  });

  ws.on('close', () => {
    clients.delete(ws);
    console.log(`Client disconnected. Total: ${clients.size}`);
  });
});

// When you have new data, broadcast to all connected clients
function broadcastNotification(notification) {
  const message = JSON.stringify({
    type: 'notification',
    data: notification,
    timestamp: Date.now()
  });

  clients.forEach(client => {
    if (client.readyState === WebSocket.OPEN) {
      client.send(message);
    }
  });
}

That’s it. No polling loop. No setTimeout hell. No 2.5 million requests per hour.

When NOT to Use WebSockets

Here’s where people fuck up: they use WebSockets for everything after learning about them. Don’t do that.

Don’t use WebSockets if:

  • You only need to fetch data once (use regular HTTP GET)
  • Updates are rare (like, once per hour - just poll)
  • You’re building a simple form submission (use POST)
  • You need to cache responses (WebSocket messages aren’t cached)
  • You’re dealing with binary file uploads (use multipart/form-data)

Do use WebSockets if:

  • You need sub-second latency for updates
  • Multiple users need to see changes simultaneously (collaborative editing, games)
  • You’re building chat, live dashboards, or real-time notifications
  • The server needs to push updates without the client asking first

The rule I use: If you’re checking for updates more than once per minute, consider WebSockets. If less than that, HTTP polling is probably fine.

The Gotchas Nobody Warns You About

1. Connection Limits

Your server can handle way fewer WebSocket connections than HTTP requests. Each WebSocket keeps a file descriptor open. On most systems that’s limited to ~65,535 per process. We hit this at around 50,000 concurrent users and had to implement connection pooling across multiple servers.

Connection Architecture (learned the hard way):

Load Balancer (sticky sessions required!)
     │
     ├─→ WS Server 1 (max 50k connections)
     ├─→ WS Server 2 (max 50k connections)
     ├─→ WS Server 3 (max 50k connections)
     │
     └─→ Redis Pub/Sub (for cross-server messaging)

2. Proxy Weirdness

Some corporate proxies, firewalls, and CDNs will straight-up kill WebSocket connections. We saw a 12% connection failure rate in enterprise environments. Always have a fallback to HTTP polling:

function connectWithFallback() {
  try {
    return new WebSocket('wss://api.example.com/live');
  } catch (error) {
    console.warn('WebSocket failed, falling back to polling');
    return new PollingClient('https://api.example.com/poll');
  }
}

3. Mobile Battery Drain

Keeping a persistent connection open drains mobile batteries faster than you’d think. We noticed a 15-20% increase in battery usage for our mobile app. The solution? Only maintain WebSocket connection when app is in foreground:

// Mobile-specific optimization
document.addEventListener('visibilitychange', () => {
  if (document.hidden) {
    ws.close();  // Close when app backgrounded
  } else {
    ws = connectWebSocket();  // Reconnect when foregrounded
  }
});

The Bottom Line

WebSockets aren’t magic, but they’re damn useful when you need real-time updates. The performance gains are real - I’ve got AWS bills to prove it. Just don’t use them for everything.

If you’re polling an endpoint more than once per minute, do yourself a favor and consider WebSockets. Your server bill will thank you.

And if you’re not polling frequently? Stick with HTTP. It’s simpler, more debuggable, and works everywhere.

📊 Suggested Visuals:

  1. Line graph comparing bandwidth usage: HTTP polling vs WebSockets over 24 hours
  2. Architecture diagram showing load balancer → multiple WS servers → Redis pub/sub
  3. Mobile battery usage comparison chart (foreground vs background WebSocket connections)

Got questions about WebSocket implementation? Hit me up. I’ve probably made whatever mistake you’re about to make.